FIVE
MINUTES THAT CHANGED MY LIFE
By Phil Rog, Educational Program Director
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It
started out as a weekend father-and-son fishing
trip and turned out to be a life-changing experience.
The next five minutes would alter the course
of life for both my son and myself. We were
following a full-size van after dark along a
stretch of road leading out of town. The road
was winding and had double yellow lines warning
us to be alert of what lay ahead. As we came
to the last major curve, I saw a faint light
coming toward the van and stopped as quickly
as I could. Something was not right, and as
I looked up, I saw the oncoming car lose control
and slide into the front of the van.
Even
in the dark of night I could see the degree
of damage to both cars. Small fires started
in both cars as we slowly drove up through the
debris to see if anyone needed help. What we
found was that the driver of the oncoming car
died during the impact, and the van had people
crying for help. It took both my son and I to
break into the burning van and enter it only
to see a large pile of people pleading for help.
One
by one we pulled out a mother and five children.
As I reentered the van, a young girl of about
thirteen stared into my eyes, as the heat became
so intense her clothing caught on fire. She
never cried, but the look on her face was one
I will never forget. She seemed to accept the
fact she was about to die and showed no pain.
I told her I was sorry and backed out as the
fire blew past her, and I knew there was no
hope for the others left in the van.
It
was later that night at the hospital we learned
that the van had a total of thirteen occupants,
and my son and I were credited with saving the
lives of six of them. The car, that caused this
carnage, was driven by a man with a blood alcohol
level twice the legal limit.
As
we mended our cuts and burns over the next few
weeks, I called local and state officials offering
my services as a speaker. As a teacher, I had
hopes that a tragedy like this could be used
at schools and community events to educate people
and especially children to the dangers of drinking
and driving. Pat Larson, Director of Victim
Services for AAIM, gave me my chance to do that
and also placed the idea of the AAIMmobile as
a possible forum to speak from.
I
have contacted many corporations asking for
help to start a program using the AAIMmobile
as a focus point to reach the people of Illinois.
Two of the state's leaders, Allstate Insurance
and McDonalds, have funded a program that has
covered the northern half of Illinois. The AAIMmobile
has been to county fairs, community events,
car, air, and motorcycle shows this summer.
Coming up are more community and charity events,
go-cart races, and fall and winter parades.
To date, the AAIMmobile has been seen by over
one million people through events and many more
by its travel on the roads of Illinois. As for
my son James, he started college and is majoring
in Law Enforcement-his way of making a difference.
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